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Into the Woods (a picture post)

Last weekend was a long weekend here in Canada.

Usually, we head out of town and stay in a cottage with our friends. This year, we’d been planning to go to Portland instead, but that fell through. So we decided to stay at home. I was OK with it…something told me that we were going to have bigger adventures in our own backyard than we would on a trip.

 

I was right.

 

On Sunday, we picked up some friends and went for a hike at Long Lake Provincial Park. This park is technically in the city (I think), and it’s about a 5-minute drive from our apartment. You wouldn’t know it, though.

 

 

The trail heads through the woods and comes out onto Long Lake itself. We played by the water for a little bit, and Xander threw some rocks.

 

Honestly, I think we could have had a completely satisfactory trip just hanging out by the water…but that wouldn’t have made it an adventure.

 

We walked along the shore for a bit. This was our first truly summery weekend after a LOT of wet, and the plants were making the most of it. This was the weekend that all the leaves came out.

 

Eventually, we climbed back up onto the path that leads around the lake. It was a gorgeous afternoon, and the woods smelled of newly-grown leaves and just-blossoming flowers.

 

Eventually, we headed up a path away from the lake. Well…I say “path”…it had turned into a dried-up creek bed.

 

 

Well…maybe “dried up” was an optimistic term. It was still fun, though. It was like a puzzle, trying to figure out which side of the mess would be easier to walk on.

 

 

After a long, messy slog, we reached a spot where the creek bed ended and a stream began. It curved around and headed back toward the lake.

 

 

This part of the trip made all the time in the mud worth it. We found a path that curved alongside the stream. It was much easier going, and it was stunningly beautiful. We stopped constantly to look at the water.

 

 

At one point, we all sat down on a rock by the water. Our ears were filled with the rushing of the stream, the chattering of a nearby squirrel, the sigh of our own breath. It was peaceful beyond all imagining. It was like we were meditating without even trying.

 

 

Xander picked up on it too. Usually, when we’re walking around our suburb, he’ll complain that he’s tired within 15 minutes. That afternoon, he walked for 3 hours and didn’t mention being tired or hungry until the very end.

 

 

We were getting close to the lake, but the path had one more beautiful sight to show us. We stayed by this waterfall for a long time, taking it in.

 

 

And then we reached the lake. Even though you could see the city in the distance, it felt hundreds of miles away. I felt like any amount of time could have passed…we could have been like the people in stories who go off into the woods and come back months later, thinking no time has passed.

 

 

As I dabbled my feet in the lake water, I was filled with a sense of wonder and well-being. I felt so connected to the earth and to my ancestors who spent their lives walking through woods. I felt the arms of Mama Earth embracing and supporting us. I felt my muscles, tired, yes, but strong and capable…more capable than I’d thought.

 

We picked ourselves up and walked back to the car, full to the brim of sunshine and peace, and already planning our next trip back to the woods.

Sometimes you don’t need to travel far to have adventures. You just need to step outside your door.

Spirit-Moving Inspiration: Source


 I think we need to hold a place for what is beautiful and what is healing and what is wisdom and profound and real, and invent those things if we don’t know what they are. 

“But there’s no beauty in my life”?

Invent it.

-Margie Gillis

 

Watching this film, I am blown away by the sheer visual lushness of the slow motion, high definition photography. It takes something that would have been beautiful on its own, and it ramps it up. Suddenly, the film isn’t just showing a woman dancing, it’s revealing the dance that is everywhere.

~The shifting folds in the falling fabric of her cloak and scarf.

~The simple beauty of a foot taking a single step—the shift of the weight and the movement of the joints.

~The stretch and reach of her fingers.

~The swirl and billow of her hair.

~The shine of her smile as she moves.

These are all dances in their own right. They are all beautiful.

The world dances around you. How many dances do you witness every single day?

~The glint of an icicle.

~The swoop and soar of a seagull.

~The billow of smoke from a chimney.

~The staccato passage of pedestrians.

~The stretch and shiver of an awakening cat.

How can you hold a place for what is beautiful?

What beauty do you see in your everyday life?

Dec 8: Beautifully Different

Reverb is an every-day-in-December journalling/blogging practice. Each day features a prompt that either helps you integrate the past year or envision what you want to create in the next one (sometimes both). If you want to follow along with me, I’m posting a prompt on my Facebook page every morning.

 

Dec 8: Beautifully different. Think about what makes you different and what you do that lights people up. Reflect on all the things that make you different – you’ll find they’re what make you beautiful. (Karen Walrond)

OK, I admit it, I hated this question last year. So much that I was thisclose to leaving it out of my Reverb11 lineup this year. I actually did—I scheduled another prompt to post today…and then I felt bad. It’s a pretty juicy question. Just because I struggled with it last year doesn’t mean other people shouldn’t have a chance to think about it.

And besides…I get it now.

I am not a consumer of mass media. We don’t have cable TV. I don’t read newspapers. I avoid malls like the plague and don’t listen to commercial radio. But this year I made a collection of used magazines for dreamboard purposes, and once I’d flipped through a few of those in search of images…I understood.

Oh. Different from THAT. Different from that fictional person that the media tells me I “need to be.” Different from those airbrushed, dyed, and painted Photoshop creations. Riiiiiiiiiiight.

So, what makes me beautifully different?

Now I can tell you (although this may get a little bit random in places, and please believe me when I say that this declaration of ME-ness is in no way a judgement on YOU if you feel/act in other ways…that’s what the whole “different” thing is about. Different is good, and you’re different in YOUR way. OK? Cool):

-I am a size 20. And I think my every curve is gorgeous. I’m finding that it’s much easier to joyfully move my body when I actually like my body, no matter what its size. I’m increasingly horrified by ads/articles/everything in magazines telling me (and all women) that I (we) should be focused on “losing pounds and inches” or assuming that I’m looking for a way to be smaller. Whatever. My body is part of me, no matter what its size. I want to be fit and strong and flexible, but I’m good with whatever size I happen to be. I’m learning to take care of my body for its own sake. It’s a work in progress, but it feels pretty awesome.

-I was thrilled when I saw my first grey hair. Seriously! I thought it was cool. Now I have a lot of them, and I smile when I see them. I earned every one of those suckers. I like my natural hair colour.

-I like to dress in colours. A lot of them. Preferably 3 or more per outfit. I would like to look like a rainbow threw up on ME, not just on my office.

-I dance in grocery store aisles. Not wildly…I don’t want to hit anyone, but I definitely do a little boogie if a good song comes on the speakers as I’m wheeling the cart around. Now that it’s Christmas, I also sing along to carols while I’m shopping.

-I only wear heels on very special occasions. I mostly wear sneakers and Docs. Stacey and Clinton can bite me.

-I am notoriously craft-y. This year I’m becoming obsessed with crocheting. I also knit, embroider, sew, knot bracelets, paint, scrapbook, collage, colour, and bake. I can also make beaded wire lizards. It all comes in handy around this time of year! I don’t know if this is precisely being “beautifully different,” but it’s certainly a defining characteristic that I love about me.

-I considered myself engaged to Matthew within a month of our first kiss. There was never a question of whether or not we’d get married. We just knew. I am a very annoying relationship-advice giver.

-I don’t “entertain.” I’m sorry, I don’t. My friends and I hang out. Period. And I don’t own “good” dishes. I have dishes. Even if I decided to have a fancy schmancy party, I would do it with irony. Like having a costume party. I would probably buy a frilly apron just for the occasion.

-I was thrilled the day I found out I needed reading glasses. THRILLED. I look awesome in glasses!

-I am an insanely massive Doctor Who fan. I’ve seen each of the new seasons multiple times. I can have in-depth conversations about the relative merits of the three latest Doctors (David Tennant is my Doctor). I own both albums by Chameleon Circuit (Timelord rock band). I know all the songs by heart and can tell you which episodes they’re based on. I am a…say it with me now…NERD.

-I am an obnoxious proofreader. And I’m tickled pink that I can pick language apart and get paid for it. I spent last night knee deep in a total stranger’s teleclass materials. It was magical.

-I very much miss teaching YogaDance. I did it in 2007/8, when it was still called DansKinetics, and it was an amazing experience. All of those students coming into the room nervous and self-conscious on the first class, and then opening up and glowing. It was incredible. I still light up when I tell people about it. (It’s not the missing it that makes me beautifully different, it’s the teaching a holistic dance form based on the chakra system…at least it’s different if you’re looking through Chatelaine, Elle, and Canadian Living magazines…I think in real life it’s becoming more and more common. Thank goodness.)

-The fact that I don’t read the magazines, watch the TV shows, or follow the trends is one final reason why I’m “beautifully different” from the woman the media wants me to want to be.

There you have it. A year after the original question, but I think I finally have the answer. Huzzah!

Inspiration Tuesday: Awe-filled hush.

Happy Tuesday!

When I went through my folder last night and reviewed the posts I’d found to share, I got this overwhelming feeling: Hush.

Ordinarily, as you probably know, I write little blurbs/reactions/summaries of the things I post. But the posts I’m sharing today seem to speak for themselves. So I’m going to shut up and let them.

Quiet by Ian Sane on Flickr.com

Would I stand there and try to chat while you looked at something this beautiful? Hells no! (Image by Ian Sane on Flickr.com)

I’m glad I could pass these on. I hope you enjoy.

Gratitude in the Face of Grief by Anna Guest-Jelley

Things I’ve Learned After the Worst Year of My Life by Goddess Leonie

Dear Photograph (a collaborative tumblr collection)

The Choose Love Project created by Rachel Cole and Lori Race

Respecting your natural ability and your never, never, evers by Danielle LaPorte

About Balance by It’s Not All Mary Poppins (with thanks to Hannah for sharing)

…I’m just going to sit quietly over here while you take a look. Don’t mind me.

xox

Meg

The dance of gratitude, Part 2: Thanks Giving

Happy American Thanksgiving! I hope that, if you celebrated it, you had a fantastic day. Actually, I hope you had a fantastic day regardless of your holiday status.

Even though I am technically American, I celebrate Thanksgiving in October with my fellow Canadians (ah the joys of dual citizenship…I really don’t know why I don’t just have TWO turkey dinners. Oh wait…because I’d have to cook them. Riiiiiiiight).

TURKEY!!! So delicious…so time-consuming.

Where was I? Ah yes.

While I didn’t eat turkey (and it’s probably good that I didn’t, for reasons which will become clear), I did pause for a moment and count my blessings. Ever since I started my gratitude journal—which I am STILL doing!—I’ve been counting my blessings more and more often. And it feels pretty darn good.

So here is a snapshot of what I was grateful for at 6pm AST on American Thanksgiving, 2011:

  • a warm apartment
  • roasted butternut squash soup simmering on the stove
  • a tray of freshly baked biscuits just out of the oven
  • Florence, my ipod, playing Harry Potter books
  • a tummy almost-recovered from a lightning-fast bug yesterday
  • the fact that said bug was as lightning-fast as it was
  • my amazing husband, who spent yesterday looking after Xander while I was sick, then worked all night to catch up, THEN went to work as usual today. He’s a superhero.
  • my adorable son lying upside down on the sofa and noshing on apple slices
  • the thick layer of snow that fell yesterday without endangering any of my family
  • cozy, freshly laundered blankets to snuggle under tonight
  • impending twinges of Christmas spirit
  • my beautiful, beautiful life

Mummy, Daddy, Xander, and random giant dog (on left) by Xander.

I hope you had a beautiful Thursday, no matter WHERE you live. And I hope that today is just as lovely.

xox
Meg

Inspiration Tuesday: Hello again!

Happy Tuesday!

I MISSED YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I had a wonderful blog-vacation and I will tell you about it tomorrow. Today, being Tuesday, is all about the inspiration. I found a LOT of links over the past two weeks, but I narrowed them down to my absolute favourites. I didn’t think a 21-link post would be a) writeable or b) readable :P

Goddess Leonie had a two-part post on Roots of She while I was gone. How to Get Grateful (Part one) and (Part two). The first one will make you cry. The second one will make you want to buy a new notebook (you’ll see why).

You don’t want to be fixed
made better
no!
The white bone of your soul wants to be heard.

Jen Louden posted a gem called You Just Want to be Heard, which made me nod my head in agreement. Yes. Yes, I do. Don’t you? Don’t we all? I love it.

Photo by Andrea Schroeder, ABCcreativity.com

Andrea Schroeder has been keeping us up to date with her process of selling her house and moving, and her latest post, And now I’m falling in love with moving, made me want to bust out the cardboard boxes and clear out the clutter and the mountains of garbage we have in here (not actual garbage…most of the time). Seriously inspiring.

Elf Coat by Katwise

A couple of my goddess friends on Facebook posted a link to this woman’s AMAZING upcycled sweater-creations. I believe my exact response was “I WANT! WAAAAAANNNNNNNNT!!!!” They are just…wow.

On a sad day for Canadians, we lost Jack Layton on August 22. Jack Layton was the leader of the New Democratic Party (NDP). The fact that we lost him isn’t the inspiration. That part sucks. A lot. But here’s the thing…his parting words to the Canadian people (via a letter he left with his wife) were:

My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we’ll change the world.

He was an amazing man and a much-beloved politician (yes, they exist). Want to know how beloved? Check out these photos.

Pretty. Damn. Beloved.

And, finally, here is a video that I swiped from Flowtation Devices. It’s an improvised dance that turns into a duet and it is gorgeous. I hope you enjoy it.

…it’s so good to be back.

Have a great day!

xox

Meg

P.S. No, you’re not going crazy, the blog looks a little different. It was kind of an accident. I’ll tell you about it later this week.

Inspiration Tuesday: Money, Listening, Tools for Stuckness, and Beauty Everywhere

Happy Tuesday!

I’m currently on a blog-holiday, but I put this together ahead of time! I had some links saved up for you and I wanted to share (through the magic of post-scheduling). Enjoy!

Andrea from ABC Creativity shared a deeply insightful post about her own relationship with money…that basically has me convinced that when she does offer a course about being Creative With Money, I must do EVERYTHING HUMANLY POSSIBLE to join in so I can learn from her.

Dear Headologist:

What’s the deal with “hearing” and “listening”? I keep seeing them both all over the place, but they seem like they’re supposed to mean different things.  Aren’t they synonyms? When you’re paying attention to what someone says, that could be described with either word, right?

Listening In

Ellie Di, The Headologist posted an article about the difference between hearing and listening that I found truly helpful. I’ve heard an awful lot about witnessing and conscious listening, but no one ever gave me the “Ah ha! I’ve got it!” feeling that I got from Ellie’s post.

Michelle at Meditative Arts re-posted an article about being stuck that she wrote 6 months ago, and it is definitely going in my “HELP!” folder for use in bad times.

In a similar vein, Goddess Leonie shared an older post via Twitter that is also going into my folder: 10 Ways to Fly Beyond Creative Dream Frustrations and Fears

Two more beautiful posts by Goddess Leonie round out this week’s post:
A true story of beauty (and a free poster!)

and

Beauty is Everywhere

Have a beautiful week!

xox

Meg

P.S. A reminder: I’ve scheduled one more post for this week, on Friday, and then the blog and I will be back on August 30.